A professional coordinator will make sure that all the details are under control and can go a long way in relieving the stress on your wedding day. However, if you can’t afford to hire a pro, do ask a trustworthy friend or family member to put together a survival kit. If you’re prepared then you’re less likely to have anything go wrong, right? Most importantly, make sure that they remember to bring it on the wedding day!
Also, make a list before the wedding day of items to take to the venue and go over it before leaving home. Things can be so hectic. I’ve seen a groom forget the wedding bands and a bride forget her gown, but more likely you'll forget something like the garter, jewelry, or cuff links. The further you are traveling from home, the more important a survival kit and wedding checklist can be.
I am not saying that you need to spend a lot of time or money putting this together, but here are some things that you may want to include in your kit depending on season and venue:
Clear nail polish (for runs in your hose)
Individually wrapped nail polish remover pads, nail file, polish for touch-ups
Scissors
Safety pins, straight pins, corsage pins
Travel sewing kit (including thread to match the dress)
Tissues
Aspirin/Advil
Brush, comb, bobby pins, hairspray
Super Glue (broken heels, jewelry, etc.)
Sanitary products
Gum, Mints, breath spray
Shout wipes - removes stains/dirt from tuxes and dresses
PeptoBismol Tablets, Tums, Imodium
Duct tape, Scotch tape, double-sided tape
Lighter or matches
Bactine, clear bandaids
Mosquito repellent
Club soda (if serving red wine)
Sunglasses
Bottled Water and light snack
Rice/blotting paper and powder for shiny skin
Umbrellas
Wrinkle releaser
Jumper cables
Benadryl
Black socks for the men
Lint remover
Compact mirror
Lip gloss or lipstick for touch-ups
Toothbrush and paste
Deodorant
Fix-a-flat aerosol can
Wooden or padded hanger for the dress